When you come across an INFJ out in the wild, you won’t notice them right away, even if you are looking for them. INFJs have a function in our personality called Extroverted Feeling. This means that we can feel what other people are feeling. We can read them extremely well and determine what they want and need. Because of this amazing talent, we can mimic the personalities of the people around us to make them more comfortable or make up for what’s missing or needed.
When we’re around talkative and bubbly people we will be the quiet and attentive listeners. When we’re around shy and awkward people we’ll take on the role of the warm and friendly person who smoothes the conversation out. We will take on whatever role is needed and/or expected of us. Because we blend so well into everyone else, you might be standing next to one of us and never know it.