Hi there! I love your articles!
So I have typed as an INFJ and the descriptions usually match me to a tee. However, a lot of the time, I can’t think of an instance where i used my intuition. I have gut feelings about situations and especially people but it’s not as apparent as personality tests make it out to be. Is that intuition sub-conscious?
I have been feeling so depressed here lately. My mother does not know how to help me. I feel like I don’t want to be here at times because of how lonely I feel. I have went out on like 30+ dates with different men over the past year. I go out with some of the most attractive looking people… it doesn’t work. Eventually I started going out with people that I didn’t find attractive just hoping someone would accept me. I still haven’t found it. I usually do not get a second date. It leads me to think something is wrong with me. I don’t know what it is. I need help.
I have this issue of freezing up every time I try to start a conversation with a girl. It ends up very messy. I have heard all sorts of ides for solutions that people have and, to be honest, doesn’t help even a little bit. This is something I fear will cost me one day. How do I go about it?
Hey Sarah, I’ve been a fan of your page for a while now! It’s nice to know there is another INFJ woman out there with the same mindset.
“I feel like I am different from others. I have so many opinions that I have to keep to myself because I am shy or afraid to see how people will react. So I write. When I started to write at first I thought it would be fine but the sense of perfection seems to flare up.
It’s really hard for me to call someone my best friend. I always have those one or two people I care about so much and they tell me they care about me as well. But then they also have lots of other people they hang out with. I somehow can’t call them my best friend.